I agree with Bill Wade; if you can't say something positive and
constructive, don't say anything.
I purchased my ES kit in 1999 and started flying in 2004. The LML was
and is a great source for me and we all owe Marv immensely for providing
the service.
However, I only post when I have a question that needs an answer.
Mostly I just read and sometimes shake my head in disbelief. Why expose
myself to the Alpha types that must feed their ego by jumping on anyone
with which they disagree. The post below by Grayhawk is a prime
example. The pilots I truly respect are not the type that dominates
through intimidation. I live at an airpark so I'm exposed to
other pilots constantly and VERY FEW of them are the so called Alpha
type. They are thoughtful, caring people that respect the views of
others, even if they themselves disagree. I learned a long time ago how to
disagree without being disagreeable and it has served me well. Too bad we
can't all do the same.
Marv, I'm in favor of a limited amount of censorship. - Leon
Smith
Posted by Bill Wade:
This is exactly why people are reluctant to post. Who needs the
aggravation? I didn't realize this forum was only for Alphas. Alphas
dominate through intimidation. That applies to wolf packs and baboon
troops but it should have no place here.
People with thin skins are especially courageous when they
put themselves at risk of ridicule and abuse by posting their opinions. Those
who don't care are simply insensitive, not tough. For this forum to benefit
the greatest number of people there needs to be a certain level of respect.
Otherwise it will end up with just a few posters. -Bill
Wade
Scattered amongst the normal Lancairians are at least two other
types:
1. Those afraid to be criticized (not those that claim to have donned
flame suits) and thus don't enter the Q&A milieu. How the devil
can they be pilots? Do they shrivel and shrink when ATC issues an
analysis of some recent dunderhead flight maneuver? Have they
forgotten the abuse heaped on them by things called CFI's? Are they
always perfect at work? Are they just ex-airline captains? Huh?
Huh? Come on, we're supposed to be type-A, take charge
people........... Who cares if a stranger from half-way around the
world is punching holes in your statements? Are you going to get
embarrassed? Do you think the crowd of chuckling Lancairians are
going to remember your gaffes at the next fly-in? So what?
Get over it. Move beyond your critiphobia so the learning can
start (I know of a 12 step plan) .
2. Those that ask questions that have no answer. Like,
"Why?" Actually, there is evidence that some don't know how to ask a
question. A recent example was, "What exhaust do I use on a Lancair
IV?" These are the same people that drop their airplane off at
the shop with the terse squawk, "The AP doesn't work." Or, the Geek
Squad is coming over to your house because you called and said. "The
whatchamacallit isn't blinking." To answer any question, one needs
some context.
Try this the next time you text a query on your device (Blueberry or
whatever) - Before sending it, get up or remain standing if already up, and
walk around to the other side of the screen. Pretend you are an
ignorant recipient of the glorious piece of prose you just
prepared. See if you might need to provide some additional information
to intelligently frame an answer to the question with relevance to your
needs. Really, try it and you may be surprised. OK, I know you
can't read through the back side of the screen, think vertically and keep
walking in a circle until the screen face comes into view again.
Geeeeeez.
Grayhawk