After many helpful emails, and a generous phone call, I've decided the best airplane for us is to move up to the 320/360.  Thanks for all the detailed input.  This group truly has a lot of helpful knowledge.

That being said, I'm looking to purchase a 320/360 in the next couple of months.  If anyone knows of one that isn't obviously for sale online, I'd appreciate a contact.  

Thanks again everyone.  

Paul Besing