X-Virus-Scanned: clean according to Sophos on Logan.com Return-Path: Received: from atlmtaow03.cingularme.com ([66.102.165.8] verified) by logan.com (CommuniGate Pro SMTP 5.3.2) with ESMTP id 4106066 for flyrotary@lancaironline.net; Sun, 31 Jan 2010 17:46:08 -0500 Received-SPF: none receiver=logan.com; client-ip=66.102.165.8; envelope-from=davidm@remconinc.com Received: from [10.55.42.203] (really [166.205.9.45]) by atlmtaow03.cingularme.com (InterMail vM.6.01.04.00 201-2131-118-20041027) with ESMTP id <20100131224528.GWQN21727.atlmtaow03.cingularme.com@[10.55.42.203]> for ; Sun, 31 Jan 2010 17:45:28 -0500 Message-Id: From: David Moyer To: Rotary motors in aircraft In-Reply-To: Content-Type: multipart/alternative; boundary=Apple-Mail-2-1055263565 Content-Transfer-Encoding: 7bit X-Mailer: iPhone Mail (7D11) Mime-Version: 1.0 (iPhone Mail 7D11) Subject: Re: [FlyRotary] Charlies an angel Date: Sun, 31 Jan 2010 16:43:04 -0600 References: X-Cloudmark-Analysis: v=1.0 c=1 a=NhwGM02hNSP39VMkCS1Mfg==:17 a=0W0xTXeVAAAA:8 a=glYVDZ00AAAA:8 a=0wFd3fCl94Jmju3-tLoA:9 a=o8H7NGPhe_GqBdC6oxYA:7 a=9laa9bifdaenhe_7MXe4HJnmSNcA:4 a=SQVEfA1_1VUA:10 a=uHVlGOdhgd8A:10 a=KA9t-ddGVegA:10 a=9j5m576BwKIA:10 a=XCwpvLtFMdsA:10 a=aorJnQLyuZyCYlLKy2cA:9 a=MubmeRwyR2KL9qo97W0A:7 a=NIarF7jbc8uc9wEaeoFckum4wnoA:4 --Apple-Mail-2-1055263565 Content-Type: text/plain; charset=utf-8; format=flowed; delsp=yes Content-Transfer-Encoding: quoted-printable Wow, Chris my thoughts and prayers are with you. I can not even begin =20= to imagine the pain you are going through. My wife lost a baby 6 =20 months into her pregnancy and that too was extremely hard to deal =20 with, but to loose a child after you have really bonded with them has =20= to thousands of times harder. I don't know what your view of God or an after life is, but I believe =20= your son will be in heaven waiting for you. I know that was one of the =20= only comforts for my wife and I. I hope you find your comfort in friends, family and in God. -- David Moyer Remcon Associates, LLC davidm@remconinc.com Office: 281-360-2158 Fax: 281-360-2168 Cell: 281-795-2712 On Jan 31, 2010, at 1:53 PM, Chris Barber =20= wrote: > As I have mentioned in the past, I consider you guys and gals as =20 > friends. Due to this, and since I spoke of him on the list in the =20 > past, I feel compelled to share my deep grief that my three month =20 > old son, Charles "Charlie" David Barber passed away Thursday. He was =20= > visiting his grandmother (since I was a single dad, she cared for =20 > him when I worked) who discovered his lifeless body in his crib when =20= > she woke. It appears to be a case of SIDS. There was no trauma and =20 > it will be weeks before the toxicology reports return. Considering =20 > how much press it gets, you would be amazed at how really low the =20 > SIDS rate is. Its rate has been cut in half since 1980. Currently =20 > about 2300 deaths in 4 million annual births in the US. > > > > I did not realize this depth of sorrow was possible. I do not mean =20 > to be a downer and I would prefer not to clog the list with a lot of =20= > condolences as I know your thoughts are with me. I apologize to =20 > those who do not feel this is the proper forum to share this, but =20 > since I spoke of him here, I would be at a loss if someone =20 > innocently mentioned him down the road and I had not shared the =20 > news. I am beside myself. The only time I got to fill out paperwork =20= > that I was his "father" was on his death certificate paperwork. This =20= > has changed me and I am going to miss my son and the old me. I had =20 > so embraced my role as father and the word "son". He is/was my only =20= > child. > > > > Anyway, I think I may be trying to distract myself (which so far has =20= > failed miserably) by working on my project. Kinda hard to keep the =20 > tears out of the epoxy. I actually didn't know I could sob. I have =20 > some questions about the engine...actually Tracy's PSRU, and hope I =20= > am not thought crass that I may be asking some soon. It is a coping =20= > mechanism. > > =E3=80=80 > > Thank you for humoring a grieving father. > > =E3=80=80 > > All the best, > > =E3=80=80 > > Chris Barber > > Houston --Apple-Mail-2-1055263565 Content-Type: text/html; charset=utf-8 Content-Transfer-Encoding: quoted-printable
Wow, Chris my thoughts and prayers = are with you. I can not even begin to imagine the pain you are going = through. My wife lost a baby 6 months into her pregnancy and that too = was extremely hard to deal with, but to loose a child after you have = really bonded with them has to thousands of times = harder.

I don't know what your view of God or = an after life is, but I believe your son will be in heaven waiting for = you. I know that was one of the only comforts for my wife and = I. 

I hope you find your comfort in = friends, family and in God. 

--
David = Moyer
Remcon Associates, LLC
Of= fice: 281-360-2158
Fax: 281-360-2168
Cell: = 281-795-2712

On Jan 31, 2010, at 1:53 PM, Chris = Barber <cbarber@texasattorney.net>= ; wrote:

As I have mentioned in the past, I consider you guys and gals as = friends. Due to this, and since I spoke of him on the list in the past, = I feel compelled to share my deep grief that my three month old son, = Charles "Charlie" David Barber passed away Thursday. He was visiting his grandmother (since I was a single dad, she cared = for him when I worked) who discovered his lifeless body in his crib when = she woke. It appears to be a case of SIDS. There was no trauma and it = will be weeks before the toxicology reports return. Considering how much press it gets, you would be amazed at how = really low the SIDS rate is. Its rate has been cut in half since 1980. = Currently about 2300 deaths in 4 million annual births in the US.

 

I did not realize this depth = of sorrow was possible. I do not mean to be a downer and I would prefer = not to clog the list with a lot of condolences as I know your thoughts = are with me. I apologize to those who do not feel this is the proper forum to share this, but since I spoke of him here, I = would be at a loss if someone innocently mentioned him down the road and = I had not shared the news. I am beside myself. The only time I got to = fill out paperwork that I was his "father" was on his death certificate paperwork. This has changed me and I am going = to miss my son and the old me. I had so embraced my role as father = and the word "son". He is/was my only child.

 

Anyway, I think I may be trying to = distract myself (which so far has failed miserably) by working on my = project. Kinda hard to keep the tears out of the = epoxy. I actually didn't know I could sob. I have some questions about the engine...actually Tracy's PSRU, and hope I am = not thought crass that I may be asking some soon. It is a coping = mechanism.

=E3=80=80

Thank you for humoring a grieving = father.

=E3=80=80

All the best,

=E3=80=80

Chris Barber

Houston

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